Life across the river

December 3, 2015

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The destitution of Paterson is juxtaposed by the surrounding abundance of Bergen County. Neighboring towns like Glen Rock, Ridgewood, Hawthorne, Fair Lawn, and Saddle Brook celebrate upper middle class lifestyles and white-collar careers.

The future of Oasis enjoys a lovely lunch celebrating the Wyckoff Y’s generous relationship with Oasis.

The youth, accustomed to wealth within these towns, are only fleetingly familiar with their less fortunate neighbors.

“I think it’s hard for kids in our communities in North Bergen County to really understand, not just about being poor, but about the lack of opportunity,” Brady said. “These kids don’t have grass, they can’t go to a park in Paterson, they’ve never played in the sand, they don’t have a lake to go to, and they don’t have a pool to swim in. So their experience is so vastly different five miles away from where you and I live. You know it’s hard to grasp until you get here and get to know the kids that are here.”

The circulation of local news between Paterson and its neighboring towns is also nearly nonexistent, despite the proximity of the communities.

People take for granted their lack of fear. You don’t have to be afraid. You may be afraid, but you don’t have to be afraid. These kids really have to be afraid.”

— Jennifer Brady

“One of the boys who is a tutor in our after school program, his father was shot and killed two weeks ago. This happens in Paterson, it doesn’t happen in Glen Rock. You didn’t even read about it in the paper because it’s not news here,” Brady said. “People take for granted their lack of fear. You don’t have to be afraid. You may be afraid, but you don’t have to be afraid. These kids really have to be afraid.”

The Oasis boys are all smiles before they go for a swim at the Wyckoff Y.

The dissimilarities between the communities may appear evident, yet there are many things that individuals take for granted that may continue to astonish even the masses.

“People take life for granted. No really, life. Having the freedom just to be able to go out. One of our girls that we hired through a grant goes to St. Louis College. She just completed her first year and she was saying to me yesterday that she was having a hard time in the beginning adjusting. And I said, ‘Why?’” Walsh explained.  “She said, ‘Because of the trees, the grass, and no sirens and gunshots.’”

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